Andromeda Romano-Lax delivers this psychological suspense which diggs into the murky, often-unspoken realities of how boys are shaped by society and what theyโ€™re allowed to get away with. What Boys Learn is not just a mystery, itโ€™s a sharp, unsettling look at motherhood, guilt, and the terrifying question mother ask. “What if your own child is capable of something monstrous?”

After two teenage girls are found dead in a wealthy Chicago suburb, Abby Rosso high school guidance counselor begins to suspect her son Benjamin may be involved. She doesnโ€™t want to believe it, but the signs are there. And as someone who has witnessed firsthand what boys can become, she canโ€™t ignore her instincts.

The book kicks of with a prologue where she finds something disturbing in her sonโ€™s drawer. What it is, weโ€™re not told right away and that small mystery grips the reader from the start.

While the pace is slow at times, the psychological tension is masterfully sustained. The author weaves a chilling atmosphere out of everyday suburban life, pulling back the curtain on what lies beneath the surface of so-called “perfect” families and communities.

Themes of adolescence, toxic masculinity, and parental denial run deep. This book doesnโ€™t offer easy answers. It only asks uncomfortable questions about complicity, protection, and the stories we tell ourselves to survive.


Stephanie is a writer, avid reader and movie lover with great love and passion for thrilling, suspenseful and mystery stories. When she’s not writing a traumatic character or reading through a gripping thriller she’s definitely watching a dark psychological thriller movie.